Making Better Relationship with Your Lover
Love is the most profound relationship known to mankind and it is for the majority that romantic relationship is the most meaningful element of their life. Relationship becomes even tougher to manage when loving relationship culminates into marriage. It is well said that love is the dream and marriage is the extension of the dream to reality.
But to maintain a long lasting healthy relationship is not easy and the ability to have a healthy relationship is not innate. Most of us experience a failed relationship but we more or less work over consciously to master skills that are necessary to make relationship flourish.
Relationship may get affected due to silly reasons that made you aggressive and arises a series of conflicts. When marriage doesn’t work it is seen that partner doesn’t have big issues to fight but are quarrelling due to difference in styles. It simply erodes the good will of relationship that underlies in each relationship.
Sometimes a dirty sock on the floor is not just a sock on the floor or you don’t like the way your partner chews so loudly or you hate the way your partner put his feet on the furniture. These are the things which can be ignored easily but when your marriage is not working properly, you simply get annoyed or irritated. One should realize that irritations are inevitable in relationships. These irritations may cause deeper problem makes you bothersome but are totally meaningless. It looks as if ice cubes becoming ice burg. It is not possible to find another human being whose habits preferences are aligned as perfectly as yours.
Relationship is always incorporated with differences in styles that are genetically influenced temperament and it is oblivious that each of us is having different ways of looking at the world. These small issues may coalesce into vast if it takes another meaning in your mind. Any of the annoyance in relationship is considered as the two way street. It is always seen that partners focus on what they are getting and not on what they are giving. It hardly matter how frustrating is your partner behavior but your interpretation is the greater part of it. Ultimately it only means that what meaning you attach with the behaviors.
Ability of eliminating relationship is associated with each of us. But before doing any thing as such you must think that it may sabotage good relationship. It is never easy to cope up when any of the significant relationship or marriage ends. If your marriage is not working properly you are facing above mentioned silly issues you must not think of getting spitted up or divorce. But surely changed the way of looking at the issues and trigger your relationship with totally new enthusiasm and grow it to new stronger level.